Basic Things
in case you might be interested on my commissions just ask me for examples. i wont mind if you back off. i do Pay What You Want, DM for details. i hold the right to turn down a commission for any reason. i take paypal and PIX.
Before You Interact
as i am aplatonic, the main thing that dictate my opinion on someone are their morals and actions. i typically stand for anyone im friends with, and if they do something bad i would like to be informed.
in the same line of thought, if i am wrong id like to be corrected. i am always open to changing my mind if met with convincing arguments, though i ask it's done gently as i can get deffensive if i feel attacked.
Do Not Interact:
-neutral contact, pro contact and everything in between
-radqueer (look above)
-ableists (towards personality disorders, schizospec, brain damage, learning disabilities, etc)
-anti para (i am strictly anti contact! if you dont fw non offending MAPs, zoos, necros, biastophiles etc, please do not waste my time! people cant choose what they think or feel but they can choose how they act! people should not be paying for crimes they didn't commit!)
⚠️important⚠️
⏩if you cause any emotional distress to me that could be avoided or on purpose, i dont have to stay around you (and wont). this applies to everyone, no matter my relationship or how long i've had it.⏪i do not tolerate teasing or challenging- be it serious or a joke.if you don't like me, please dont waste your or my time. there is no point to playing pretend.
About Me
-21 y.o
-schizotypal, borderline, narcissist, avoidant. ASD (lvl 2 support)
-very religious (Marquis Forneus, nº30)
-i try to be nice to everyone unless given a reason not to (such as disrespect, provoking or if it relates to one of the causes i stand for).
-hedonist sexuality-wise (moral standing)
-mostly nsfw artist
-frogs are my favorite animal. also love bugs.
-not available romantically/emotionally
-i go by they/them and he/him and dont consider myself part of the LGBTQIA+ community, but stand by the people in it
-human rights, animal rights, mental health awareness and sex positivity
-propara, anti contact. disordered hematophile (feel free to ask about it, awareness is important.). ⚠️i do not endorse abuse of any kind.⚠️
-highly interested on psychology, philosophy, geopolitics, biology and the ocean.
-big fan of reasonable rules.
-plushy enjoyer.
-whump enjoyer, sadist extraordinaire.
-average DBT enjoyer. "build a life worth living"
HEADS UP, WE WILL PROBABLY NOT GET ALONG IF:
-you are a puritan or use the word "gooner" unironically (oh hey, thats me.. hooray..)
-you mock religion (any) (this includes cultural appropriation such as the one endos have done to buddhism's tulpamancy)
-you are rude to me. i just dont have the patience.
-you see nothing wrong with casual use of words such as schizo, psychotic, insane, narcissist, antisocial, sociopath/psychopath, the r slur, delusional/"delulu", etc
-you are anti self-dx (why does anyone even trust doctors at this point?)
-you dont stand for what you believe in
-you are anti-men, anti-cis or anti-straight (ESPECIALLY radfems)
-you are passionately against things that dont harm anyone
-you partake in cringe culture
😳 18+ info! 😳
i might not always be up for it! ask first.
-open for trading pics and stuff (only sx). both parties boundaries must be explicitly communicated first though.
-i am not likely to initiate (scared of making people uncomfortable).
-if things get uncomfortable at any point and for any reason at all, communicate it (if not for yourself, for me. i am not fine at all with continuing in that context.)
-ask first, about everything. i'll do the same. do not assume anything.
-no possessive stuff.
-fair warning, im covered in scars through nearly my whole body. only start stuff if youre fine with that. (yes, its okay to compliment them. please do)
-PLEASE remember you dont owe me anything. if i decide to share something, you DO NOT HAVE TO "PAY BACK". consent goes both ways. i am not okay with anyone feeling 'cohersed' and you should only do whathever you want to.